Relationships and Parenting

Hi Friends,   I am an emotional person with 2 kids. Here is what I do to spend quality time with kids and that too without "taking out" any special time . Providing quality time to the kids should come naturally.  So, Here  are some of my ideas to give quality time to kids. Story Time : This is the best way to teach good things to kids. I create small stories impromptu. (eg. any story of a little child and her pencil box  just to teach no wastage of stationary items etc.)  These stories are my true saviors because at this time I feel I'm spending these 5 minutes 100 % with my kids with nothing else occupying my mind. While in my car : I always talk to my kids while in car. I show them the things around and even narrate various childhood stories to them. (eg. about my cycling experience on road when I was just their age.)  I tell them some of the interesting events of my life which make them understand the family bonds better. Watching Interesting...

    Hello,  Today my kids are seeming so organized and responsible. This is real! And they are of 11 and 4 years in age.Imagine! Kids sitting calmly engrossed in their own little world of toys and games. Isn't it a bit strange and that too while at home all the time during corona at large. So, this was a hurrah for me. Yes! I've nailed it and here I go expressing a few tricks to get them here. Here are a few things I would like to share with you regarding managing kids and their training to behave responsible . "My secret formula to train kids your way." As I always say "let them be". Suppose the kid needs to play with water/ paint/ small pieces of blocks etc. and mess the place. Let them. But make sure to take the promise to clean up the place afterwards with a simple warning - "you'll not be allowed the next time or mum will be sad otherwise". cool right? Make kids help you in little things rather shoving them away rudely. Like if you are in...

Hi guys my mind today is all quarantined. It's not only health or earnings that are on stake but also our own existence of being social, sharing our thoughts, sharing our smiles and joys is suffering immensely.  If you too think that the home lock-downs are effecting your love life or other relationships here is a beat for you.  The answer is "No... it was always the same..." Read why? Where am "I" ? I'm a home maker since my little one came to life. My responsibilities have bound me at home. But there was always something on my mind as to how to resume my carrier. Most of the women face these challenges and some lucky ones do make a new beginning too. But I am different. I was not so strong to move out for my carrier again. And now I know that writing is my niche and it will help me grow mentally. I am so sure and happy now that even if I'm not earning I am supporting my family by being there for kids and other household responsibilities."Being the...

Hi guys we all feel stressed at some point of life. Kids, responsibilities n changing hormones make us weak n think that the things are going haywire.  I'm talking on my personal perspective and sharing my views. We all need to understand how to get over stress to be calm and poise . Here are various stresses we all feel and their possible solutions- Marital frictions - This one is the major cause for spouses.Me sailing in the same boat with on n offs and mood swings can say that this type can be handled by talking your heart out. This will be 100% beneficial. And if the other side is adamant then the possible way out is what I call silent complaint. In this your silence is your win and ultimately you'll be distressed when the spouse will break the ice. And the ball is in your court. Interfering Elements- Being married means ready for compromises. And the beginning of stress lies here. Stress buster here would be self respect and decision making. Be your own master and be w...