Relationships and Parenting

 Hello all the wonderful people reading this.  I am pretty sure about this thought that if we all use the term "we" for any venture or work all the major or minor problems in our lives will vanish. "I" is the Danger Zone -  It is seen that whenever it comes to our ego the relationships come at stake. Our own egos don't let us be humble and cordial. But if we come out of our "I" zone and consider our loved ones as one entity we can uplift the bar of our own love and care towards our valuable relations. How to start following "we" - The Heal All - Firstly   start using the word we for every household work. Say "shall we lay the table" or "shall we cook" or "shall we help the kids complete the school assignment" etc. This way you and your partner will spend the quality time together without being a burden on any one or dividing duties to any o ne. Secondly, In many cases we see the male members working for earning ...

Any relationship becomes long lasting and binding if it holds the four basic pillars strongly  -"T-R-U-E"(  named by me). As the word itself explains it all, the four pillars are- T- Trust R- Respect U- Understanding E- Emotional Strength Trust- The basic healthy feed of every relationship is trust. Never shake your faith in your partner. Because where there is true love there is no flickering. Once shaken you can never get it back the same way. Remember it takes years to build but a second to destroy . Never be skeptical or doubt your soulmate otherwise it will ruin your tranquil life. And on the other hand be a trustworthy person to get it back in same respect. No trust, no being together.  Respect- Always respect the decisions made by your partner. Respect is earned and never demanded. So earn it by showing some to other. Respect the other one's dignity and individuality. The more you give the more you will earn and the love will grow to it's epitome. Understand...

Hello Guys, Today I'll talk about connecting more love to your marriage. Some people say that love comes first and then we decide to get married but their is another cliche that love happens after marriage.   Love is  a beautiful word and fills us with a very positive vibe. Two people fall in love when they start liking each other's mannerisms and the way the other person perceives things. Believe me love is not only physical it's always more than that which connects you to each other. Whether love happened to you before marriage or after marriage but it's beauty remains the same.  Marriage   is an institution where love is a quintessential emotion which cannot be subsided. Marriage = Love  Here are a few ideas to connect to your spouse better and feel loved: Emotional connect:   The foremost requirement of the married life is to be attached emotionally. Get to know what is close to the other's heart. Know how emotional he/she is. What are the thi...

Hi Friends,   I am an emotional person with 2 kids. Here is what I do to spend quality time with kids and that too without "taking out" any special time . Providing quality time to the kids should come naturally.  So, Here  are some of my ideas to give quality time to kids. Story Time : This is the best way to teach good things to kids. I create small stories impromptu. (eg. any story of a little child and her pencil box  just to teach no wastage of stationary items etc.)  These stories are my true saviors because at this time I feel I'm spending these 5 minutes 100 % with my kids with nothing else occupying my mind. While in my car : I always talk to my kids while in car. I show them the things around and even narrate various childhood stories to them. (eg. about my cycling experience on road when I was just their age.)  I tell them some of the interesting events of my life which make them understand the family bonds better. Watching Interesting...

    Hello,  Today my kids are seeming so organized and responsible. This is real! And they are of 11 and 4 years in age.Imagine! Kids sitting calmly engrossed in their own little world of toys and games. Isn't it a bit strange and that too while at home all the time during corona at large. So, this was a hurrah for me. Yes! I've nailed it and here I go expressing a few tricks to get them here. Here are a few things I would like to share with you regarding managing kids and their training to behave responsible . "My secret formula to train kids your way." As I always say "let them be". Suppose the kid needs to play with water/ paint/ small pieces of blocks etc. and mess the place. Let them. But make sure to take the promise to clean up the place afterwards with a simple warning - "you'll not be allowed the next time or mum will be sad otherwise". cool right? Make kids help you in little things rather shoving them away rudely. Like if you are in...

Hi guys my mind today is all quarantined. It's not only health or earnings that are on stake but also our own existence of being social, sharing our thoughts, sharing our smiles and joys is suffering immensely.  If you too think that the home lock-downs are effecting your love life or other relationships here is a beat for you.  The answer is "No... it was always the same..." Read why? Where am "I" ? I'm a home maker since my little one came to life. My responsibilities have bound me at home. But there was always something on my mind as to how to resume my carrier. Most of the women face these challenges and some lucky ones do make a new beginning too. But I am different. I was not so strong to move out for my carrier again. And now I know that writing is my niche and it will help me grow mentally. I am so sure and happy now that even if I'm not earning I am supporting my family by being there for kids and other household responsibilities."Being the...