Love and Marriage

Hello Guys,
Today I'll talk about connecting more love to your marriage.
Some people say that love comes first and then we decide to get married but their is another cliche that love happens after marriage.
 
Love is a beautiful word and fills us with a very positive vibe. Two people fall in love when they start liking each other's mannerisms and the way the other person perceives things. Believe me love is not only physical it's always more than that which connects you to each other.

Whether love happened to you before marriage or after marriage but it's beauty remains the same. 

Marriage is an institution where love is a quintessential emotion which cannot be subsided. Marriage = Love 

Here are a few ideas to connect to your spouse better and feel loved:

Emotional connect: The foremost requirement of the married life is to be attached emotionally. Get to know what is close to the other's heart. Know how emotional he/she is. What are the things that may upset him/her. Take care and respect each other's individuality. Be with him/her in the important decisions. Take stands for them. I assure you that this is the core key for being loved and to love.

Spiritual connect: God or spiritual belief is one thing that connects two people for eternity. Your values and thinking is all based on this aspect. Once connected spiritually their is no looking back. Talk your heart out on spirituality sometimes and believe that you'll feel amazing. For example take the topics like "How do you feel while praying?", "Do you feel some special power controlling every thing?" etc. And the connect of love you feel after this will be Godly.

Intectual connect: Respect each other's view points. Have mutual consents on common issues and do give an upper hand to your partner's views. Shed Egos. Discuss your job or business related things with each other. Connect yourself this way which will give a positive feed to your mind. And your love life and bonding will be on another level.

Physical connect: For your love life to be what you actually want is just that when you are physically together you may not have any kind of hindrance in your mind. Just be together and your thoughts should match. Lie down and you should be able to hold hands and talk endlessly. 

So, the gist is that being emotionally, intellectually and spiritually attached to your spouse is what you need to be in love with the other person physically.

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