Many More Years Of Togetherness

 

Hi Guys,

We always wish for many more years of togetherness at the time of wedding anniversaries. We wish the couple to be together forever. I would like to add - as I call it - the four pillars of marriage to this (from my another post. For the detailed ideas you can read it @ -  

https://www.blogger.com/blog/post/edit/preview/7315039017544963514/8308904483629523382

 Trust, Respect, Understanding and Emotional Stability are the four pillars which are essential for togetherness. If the basic essence of being together is missing then the idea of "being together for many more years goes haywire".

This phrase of "togetherness" when used looks very cheesy but yet lovely. But what if a couple has not yet understood the main idea behind being together? And is just staying together fulfilling the various duties and managing lives. 

I think we all need to realize the thin line between "staying together" and "BEING TOGETHER".     

Here are a few ideas for building "BEING TOGETHER" relationship.

-Go hand in hand for walks.

-Talk to each other as friends .(have you done it ever?)

- Do not judge on everything done or said at this time of coziness.

-Talk about your old age days to come.

- Talk about your childhood days (the games you'd played, the places you'd visited, or may be something which haunts you till now and is buried inside you etc. )

I think this discussion and habit will eventually lead you to a happy married life and many more years of togetherness.

Hope you liked the ideas. Please comment and subscribe it for more of such reads.

Isha

isha.cusp@gmail.com


 


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