Relationship pillars

Any relationship becomes long lasting and binding if it holds the four basic pillars strongly  -"T-R-U-E"( named by me). As the word itself explains it all, the four pillars are-

T- Trust
R- Respect
U- Understanding
E- Emotional Strength

Trust- The basic healthy feed of every relationship is trust. Never shake your faith in your partner. Because where there is true love there is no flickering. Once shaken you can never get it back the same way. Remember it takes years to build but a second to destroy. Never be skeptical or doubt your soulmate otherwise it will ruin your tranquil life. And on the other hand be a trustworthy person to get it back in same respect. No trust, no being together. 

Respect- Always respect the decisions made by your partner. Respect is earned and never demanded. So earn it by showing some to other. Respect the other one's dignity and individuality. The more you give the more you will earn and the love will grow to it's epitome.

Understanding- Understanding each others' view points and circumstances is the quintessential requisite of love. When you are in love you will automatically understand the feelings of other person. But if you are just making an effort think twice. Try to make it a natural process with 100 percent agreement on what you partner thinks. Put yourself into their place and it will help you have a better understanding then. Words will never be needed , only your presence will be enough to make the situation better. 


Emotional Strength- Be there for your partner always. The emotional strength will lead to everlasting love and togetherness. There are times when people just don't say but you should be close enough to understand them and make them pent out their feelings. Make the person know that the circumstances can be bad but not their capabilities. If your partner is emotionally stable you'll be the happiest person in the universe.

Believe me, if you keep these pillars of relationships strong, your love life will be amazing!

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